Everyone needs some time alone, but if you continually feel like you are better off alone than with someone, then it’s a bit difficult to enter a relationship like marriage. You may not like to be disturbed when you’re working at home or having quiet time, or when you’ve called some friends over to have a good time. If that’s how you feel, it clearly indicates that you need to grow more as a person to be successful and happy in a marriage. However, there are also people who just enjoy spending more time on their own than being with someone else, where they’d have to put up with things that they think outweigh any happiness that person brings to their life.
7. You Find It Hard to Date
Dating in itself takes effort, because you likely feel the need to always look and feel good in order to impress the person you’re dating, and show him or her the best of you. Not everyone finds this easy, since they may be shy or even feel like they’re just not that special, or they are worried about dating someone who they may think is ‘out of their league.’ If you feel this way, then you may have self-esteem and confidence issues, which will either go away with time and life experience, or after you’ve talked to a therapist. By addressing these issues first, you’ll then be able to enjoy a much healthier dating life, and may even find the person that you’ll spend the rest of your life with.